Definition of an Emotional Trauma
What comes to mind when you hear the words Emotional Trauma? Is this something you've ever heard of or is it something you dare not think about?
I’m asking because I want you to have a clear understanding of this concept so that it can provide you with insight into your current state of mind (current state of being) but, can also give you a starting point for rectifying your emotional state which can ultimately change your future state of mind (future state of being) from the one you are experiencing right now!
So essentially, I want to help you understand what an emotional trauma is on a molecular (Spiritual) level and explain how it can affect your life on the physical plateau.
An emotional trauma is any event that usually takes an individual by surpprise, can often times be violent in nature, may not have any violent elements to it at all, but is an event that is in direct contrast to the constructs of a person's mind.
It is a thought (state of being) shattering event that the individual was not emotionally prepared to handle. Emotional traumas always affect people in a negative way when they lack the emotional maturity to handle them and/or do not have the proper support system in place to help them resolve the experience in a healthy way.
And yes, children are more prone to these spiritual assaults as they have not yet developed a psyche emotionally rooted in wisdom (spiritual wisdom) to look on a matter in a much deeper way and pull out the intended messages life is training us on.
In my personal opinion, children shouldn't even be experiencing the kinds of upsets they are experiencing in life because of how pure they are, but when you get a world full of hurting people, you’re bound to have a world full of hurting children which essentially leads to a world full of hurting adults and the cycle potentially repeats itself.
So what are some of the affects of an ET?
One of the major upsets an emotional trauma create is what I like to think of as a type of shrinking effect. It is a cowering of sorts within and away from themselves that begins to happen right from the onslaught of the incident.
If the violated one is not aware, then a detachment from their very nature for which they are created begins to happen and often times goes undetected wreaking havoc in their life for years. It is often times described as having "lost" themself.
Whether you believe it or not, there are sinister forces seen and unseen, operating within your space (energy field) and all they need is for you to be in agreement with them about who they say you are in order to manifest the negativity you see today in the Earth.
Their only job is to erode any positive belief system within you, that is in direct opposition to that of their intended goal by way of your psyche. For those of you without this positive self-image going as far back as you can remember, then it is likely that a generational curse is already in place but for the sake of time and space, I will dive into that deeper a little bit later. First, let’s get the foundation laid.
What are some signs that an emotional trauma is in place?
• An inability to make sound decisions.
• Believing you are not worthy of the good that life has to offer.
• Experiencing negative cyclic events in your relationships, personal and business.
• Falling under the influence of drugs/alcohol and using them to cope.
• Destructive behavior that contributes to the downfall of family and society.
• Aligning yourself with people, places, and things that do not speak to the truth of who you really are as a person and so many more characteristics.
Another off-set of an emotional trauma is often times a deep seated fear of just about everything and once that particular side affect is established and in full effect, a belief system based in unbrideled fear will overcome, paralyze, and be the ruling factor (manifestation) in your world.
An individual will begin to experience hardly any movement (forward progress) in their life and start to realize that they are “stuck” in the same cycles (situations) over and over. This is a disruption of the flow of energy into and out of their lives and this is life’s way of trying to get you to pay attention and deal with the trauma at hand. To expound on this notion, I will use myself as an example.
My trauma did this exact same thing to me and at one point I wasn't able to make anything happen because I was paralyzed with this same fear and nothing good hardly ever came. But the killer part of it all was that when it did come I didn't even possess the emotional maturity to see it for what it was, let alone hold on to it and build on it. So I let fear keep me from materializing the opposite of what I really wanted for myself.
This went on for years until it reached a point where these kinds of negative events kept happening non stop and produced a spiraling effect, in my life, for over 11 years.
It was at this point that the only thing I could do was go within myself and ask myself some really hard questions. I began to revisit the things that hurt me and look at them from a different perspective, but it was also at this point that I started asking myself, 'how did I let this happen?' It wasn't pretty but I was sick and tired of being sick and tired.
There were a lot of snot nosed moments but I knew that if I wanted more for my life, I would have to dig deep and face ALL of my fears, not some but ALL of them, and I did, and I am a much happier and peaceful person for it!
So what are you going to do?
So my question here in is, what are you going to do about the rest of your life? Are you going to continue on the path you are currently on, or are you willing to pick yourself up, go within, and face every injustice you've done to yourself because of the injustice someone has done to you?
You can carry on as usual, but that comes with a hefty price.
When we resist what life is trying to teach us, the lessons get harder and louder by way of circumstances but, if you make the decision today that you are going to break up with the idiosyncrasies you've been having an affair with for all this time, you will immediately create a shift within your being that will resonate in the world around you.
To your well-being!